There have been many times throughout my life that I’ve been dating a girl, she appears super interested, and then one out of nowhere and decides that she’s no longer interested, and either begins a slow fade, ghosts or ends the relationship/courtship right on the spot.
When I’ve asked them what happened or when I talk to my female friends that have done a similar thing, the answer is always something along the lines of they’ve “sat with it and processed the relationship for a few days and decided it wasn’t worth it”. To me this absolutely baffles me. I don’t understand how someone could so easily give up something that was benefitting them, and that they seemingly enjoyed, either through their actions and/or verbal confirmation, especially without communicating potential issues with this person.
So ladies, I asked what exactly goes through your head when deciding this? Is it true that you are actually processing your emotions on the relationship or is that more or less an excuse to get out of something that you are no longer interested in?