I (F19) have been dating a really nice guy (M20) for 2 months. When I first met him I was attracted to him and wanted to date him. Now I hate spending time with him and being intimate with him. It’s almost like he annoys me. If I am being honest I am kind of a bitch to him. And he will still treat me well. My family also really likes him.
But I cannot stop thinking about my ex. (M20) We dated for a year. We had a very toxic relationship, he was physically, mentally, verbally, and sexually abusive to me. Yet I still feel like I love him. I constantly compare my new boyfriend to him and think about him everyday. I haven’t spoken to him in 4 months and my feelings for him have still not faded.
I honestly do not know what to do. I don’t see the point in breaking up with my boyfriend because there is no way I can get back with my ex. But I don’t know how to make these feelings go away. How do I get over this?