Hey guys so I need some advice..
I’m with my bf now (M27) for 4-5 months and I recently found out that while we were in the talking stage (so, not official relationship, but going out together for two months already , being intimate, knowing each other’s friends, buidling for a relationship etc), he went out when I was on vacation and he kissed a girl that night (not once, many times when dancing and talking in the club). He says its because she was in his ex’s social group and he just found out something about his past partner that night, and being intoxicated he wanted revenge. (I’d guess one kiss woild’ve sufficed….)
I cannot get that image out of my head and I cry all the time about this. It’s affecting me very much.
While he did not have other red flags during our relationship, I don’t know how to get over this. I truly thought he was the one, it was truly different from all other encounters i had. However, I can’t get the image of him willingly going to pursue someone else. The timing was pretty bad too: we were dating for two months. This was a few days after he came to my bday, mesaaged my best friend to find me the best gift (“i wanna do this right” etc), and 4 days before we became official.
Help please?