So we were watching a movie and i mentioned that the main male character looks familiar to me and somewhat looks like Dr. Shepherd in greys anatomy. And when we were talking he asked if the guy is my style and I clarified and he said like my type. And I said no, I prefer brunettes but generally I don’t really have a specific type as it changes often. I mentioned that I like guys who’s soft in terms of personality and no facial hair before but when I moved, I find that I like those that is manly now and brunettes but it’s not consistent but I like when a guy has a random thing he is passionate about, may it be like Lego cars or anything.
After that I asked him the same question, and he said he doesn’t really have any type, he didn’t mention anything specific. He said it’s different there’s girls thats pretty like blonde and blue eyes but when they talk they’re not so pretty anymore (and I’m brunette and dark brown eyes) he said “nice to look at” to pretty girls. but then he mentioned about girls that are not so pretty but have amazing personality, make
laugh, funny and that’s makes them attractive. And that it’s subjective. But he didn’t mention any physical attribute
Just idk I was thinking maybe he doesn’t find me pretty and just there and I’m wasting time here. We’ve been okay with connection and he is nice.
For the record, I actually don’t care if I’m not a person’s style just this one is I’m dating and if he’s not attracted to me or I’m not his type, I don’t get the point of us dating