Last year I finally decided to quit using dating apps to meet people. I’ve met nice people through bumble but the connection is always short lived. I also noticed that majority of the time people just treat everyone as disposable. Why is dating and finding someone so hard these days. It’s really frustrating because I want to meet someone organically. I feel like it’s hopeless in my city too, and I tend to only date when I’m out of the country. I travel at least 3x a year and also work from home, so I guess it’s a hopeless case. Don’t get me wrong I’m used to being independent but there are really times when I wish I have someone especially when I’m traveling. It’s sad when I experience something new and realize that it would’ve been nicer if I have someone to share that experience with. I’m already 31 and it’s funny because my younger self thought I’d be married by now. Life is really unpredictable.