Hi all… so I'm a 33 y/o dude who recently got serious about dating like 1-2 years ago…. I went on a few dates 1-2 years about but since then… it has been dry as hell. I live in NYC and boy dating sucks here… I have interest from girls…. but I Don't like them back. Literally some girls throw themselves at me saying they want to go to a football game with me, to another girl literally giving me her number… Those girls I have 0 interest in and I feel the pretty girls I like showed me interest like that…
I am a doctor making over 200k, I jog a lot taking care of my health, I have hobbies (drawing, writing, jogging, art/going to museums, comedy, standup comedy) and I even have my own podcast … I'm an interesting person and I'm confident in myself… but all the girls whose numbers/instagrams I got either rejected me more don't respond (rejected too). ….
I definitely am a shy person and it takes me a while to get comfortable to talk to random girls in parks but in doors when there's fewer people looking and at meetups, im way more comfortable. I am trying to ask girls out out in public at parks but im still a beginner.
I joined a Church community to hopefully meet girls that I like and I could go out with….
I go to so many meet ups but had no success.
I tried dating apps, and no they sucked. … Now I have social calendar which pairs me up with a bunch of people to go on social events… What do I do? Am I destined to never find a girl I like to date?