how do i (20F) know if i’m falling out of love/becoming less attracted to my bf? (22M)
we’ve been together for a year and i’ve been questioning how much i want to be in this relationship. our relationship has definitely been missing something in the last few months, and i don’t know if im feeling lonely, or not loved enough, but something about the relationship isn’t fulfilling needs.
the feelings i have for him are fading, and im starting to enjoy my own company, more than i enjoy being with him.
he’s getting into his work a lot more now, and it means that im seeing him less, and he’s always busy, he’s on work calls while we’re meant to be hanging out, and he doesn’t want to do simple things with me. e.g. going to see a movie, getting fast food, going for a walk…
i don’t feel the same spark that i feel when we first met. but i don’t want to lose him.
TLDR: i (20F) feel like im drifting apart from my boyfriend (22M).
how do you know if your love for someone is fading? and how do you know if it’s worth fixing and working on?