Intense self isolationist, trying to break out of it. Where do people, just, meet people?

I mean, not in a group therapy, or other niched setting. Just normal everyday meeting people. I am, an extreme self isolationist, a life time of isolation. Let me clarify. I have never had friends. I do not have social outlets with peers. I do not interact with anyone in personal, emotional level. My only real human interaction are with my sister and mother. So this is NOT a learn to ride a bike again thing. I am genuinely trying and failing (the few ventures I tried were dead ends lol) to learn how to open my life to social peers In a healthy non trauma dumping way. Unfortunately im at a dead end cuz i dont know where ppl meet other people.

As life long isolationist. I lack certain people skills. My extreme history of trauma. Badly under treated bipolar disorder. And a highly likely neurodivergent disorder like autism (masked by everything else/ undiagnosed) I am highly asocial. I become anxious when attempting to connect emotionally with peers actually just general. And i have anxiety overall.

I learned to accept my isolation. I realized being lonely didn't mean I had to be unhappy. And that having no friends ever made their absence a null emotion i didn't knew what It meant to have friends therefore their absence in my life was immaterial not an actual for reason for pain. (I.e. if a person is social and suddenly find itself without for a lengthy amount they would miss the social interaction and be grieved by it. I had nothing to compare against the absence so i should not be as affected)

Crap I promised to not make this a trauma dump

I will end this with a brief simple question

Where do people, meet, people??