Hey reddit, i don't know where to start, but why this world is so manipulative, confused, heavy for just to live, I'm working in a IT and daily I have shift work, BTW I'm 25 year old male and I don't have any girls in my team and I don't know how to approach a girl for love. After my shift I felt very empty in my heart, being alone noone to share the stories. And I'm living alone in Chennai. I'm basically a quite man, but people i spoke often say something like gp and get a girl friend. But where if i try so hard to get a girl means I slowly lose myself, when I'm not I feel sad at times for not having anyone to share. Why girls and other gender in general portraying like it's the only way of living and it's too heavy for me to handle these things. My mental health is getting bad day by day just because of this. Yes I wanted to talk to them and handout with them. But how can I approach a random girl, people often says you look handsome go and talk to girls, but for me I only knows how it affects my mental health even if noone is there to tell something the void occupies me and often the fear of missing out roasts my heart. It's feels like why I born as a soft man. If i get a girl to talk it feels heavy to get participated in the people's power game. i can feel it it's never be good for my mental health, and the another thing when my school friends getting girl friend made me feel like I'm really lonely.
I don't know whom to tell these, just posted it on reddit to get some peoples attention.