Hey everyone. I find myself in a situation where all the friends I though I made in college now don’t talk to me. I really liked these people (and though they liked me too) but now that we’re all in different towns, none of them seem to care. I’ve tried reaching out countless times to all of them but I was either met with silence or an attitude that suggested they wanted to be left alone. It’s even worse because one of whom I though we were really close seems to have a built an entirely new circle and does seem to care about what I’ve been to. It lowkey hurts ngl. I see it happening again with a friend I recently made in grad school. Granted I know he’s been going through shit but still. Has anyone been in similar situation? How do you make friends whom you know distance won’t such a problem in the future? Like I understand we can’t hangout like before but a few texts here and there? I’m not even asking them to reach out first but at least show some interest when I do? Or you just hated me all this time?


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