i’m meeting up with an old friend in a few days. we used to be super close friends from like 5-14 probably (i’m 18 now), after that we kind of started to drift apart since we went to different high schools. we still met up once in a while but we had a lot less to talk about and it was becoming awkward. we’ve only met up three times in the past two years, and we’re meeting up next week. the last time i saw her was a couple of months ago, and it wasn’t too awkward, but we were walking around shops so there was something to do. this time we’re going to get coffee so i feel like we’re going to have to talk a lot more, and we don’t really have any recent shared experiences anymore. any advice how i can make this a really nice catchup without too much awkwardness, if this goes well i’m hoping that we might be able to get into a rhythm of seeing each other more regularly again.