i (21F) just finished uni and i really struggled to make friends and meet people there. i went to Bath and honestly felt pretty isolated and ostracised in most groups i was in and it’s taken a toll on my self esteem. i really want my 20s to be better, but i have no idea where to start – so any advice would be welcome!


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  2. I’m in a similar spot and my best bet in my area is probably these game nights that go on every friday. Try to see if there’s anything like that near you- there might be and you just don’t realize it!

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