Hi, I (22F) believe I have a pretty strong personality, I am very talkative, sarcastic and playful when I'm around my friends or even certain people that I don't know very well but they give me the right vibe. But when I'm faced with a new encounter or someone that my brain has for some reason sorted into a "cooler than me" category, I have this stiff, quiet, smiley, innocent little girl personality that isn't accurate to my real self at all but it's like a default setting. I wish I could show my real self earlier on, obviously I can't start making witty or playfully sarcastic remarks about people I don't even know right away but I wish I could be a slightly more reserved version of my real self rather than this super quiet and polite persona that is painfully boring. Any tips?