I unfortunately said something that came out meaner than I meant it at work, and now I can’t stop dwelling on it. The people I was around said it was fine, but I can’t help but think they have a different perception of me now and that my reputation is hurt. Do people normally remember when you say something in a mean/hurtful way? Or do they move on and stop thinking about it moments after? I know they said it was fine after I was able to explain what I meant, but I am feeling so down on myself now.