So for context me and my friend, Eile became what I thought was good friends over discord. We have been friends for about a year and she has fully come and stayed over at my town for a full week, which I hung out with her a few times, along with everyone else. She was the second person in our friend group I came out too, and that was about 3.5 weeks ago. Everyone in my friend group is very supportive of our other friend who is trans, and I just wanted to let a few know before I came out to the larger group.
Then, 3 weeks ago I texted her as usual asking to play games at the same time we typically do every day, and her and another one of our mutuals were in the lobby. She said she didn’t feel like talking to me right now. So I just left it at that. Fast forward three weeks and essentially all forms of contact with her have stopped, and all but one of our mutual friends have “chosen her side” and just say that “it’s not permanent” yet refuse to tell me what it’s about.
The one that actually is willing to speak to me openly about it says that “it’s not my fault and that she just needs a break from me, for an unknown amount of time”
I have also been removed off of her close friends lists, aswell as the people that still talk to me.
I don’t know how to proceed with this, and worst of all she is coming to visit my town for winter break, and as it currently stands I am the only person I the group with a license and car.
I am looking for advice in this situation, sorry if this isn’t the sub for it or it’s improperly formatted.