Just looking for outsiders opinions tbh
I was chatting with a girl for a few weeks, good chemistry, we facetimed and even a bit of flirty energy. Nothing disrespectful, we were both into it. I went camping for a few days, so the pace slowed down to only snapping once or twice a day she matched it going down from 20 snaps. I was miffed it slowed down when i got back home I thought okay ill leave this till the next day give each other space to recoup. Then out of nowhere she disappeared. can’t find her on Snapchat or Instagram, so I’m assuming blocked or deactivated
I’m not angry, just genuinely confused. Why do some people invest time flirting and opening up, then suddenly hard-reset everything instead of just saying, 'Hey, I’m not feeling it'? Is it a dopamine thing, attention span, or something deeper about avoidance?
Would appreciate honest takes.