I wonder if it's a bit doomed. I'm not a super exciting guy always full of plans that can keep women entertained, which feels like what they are mainly looking for. I'm a bit of a homebody, when I travel I like to do most of the stuff during daytime then retire early and just have chill conversations until late rather than partying around. I'm not about doing crazy adventurous stuff or impulsive, I don't enjoy places that are too loud, I'm content with pursuing my hobbies.
Is there any sort of demand for this kind of personality? I've read in lots of places that "the worst thing you can be is boring", and I guess that's true, but it's also kind of how I am. If I tried to become an adventurous exciting guy sooner or later the façade would drop and she would get bored and leave.