Newly married. Wife is very introverted and has some resentments towards me and my family. When my family does gatherings she’s very quiet and doesn’t talk to anyone. And when I go to their families house I always interact nicely with everyone. They are inviting me over to their house again for dinner but I feel if she does that at my house, should I do the same there and not associate or not even go? They also speak in different language than I do but I also do my best to interact with them. I don’t want to make our families more disconnected but still I don’t like when goes completely quiet at our family events and sits in a corner and stays on her phone. I’m wondering if I should just tell her I’m not comfortable going or what.
Pls suggest