My husband and I have been married for 2 years together for almost 5. He works about 50-60hrs every week, drives an hour to and from work everyday, and sometimes has on call duties. I’m a full time student, was a full time worker, but just left my job so I’ve had more free time this month until I begin my new job. With that being said, I feel like it’s too much of me to ask for my husband to hang out with me. When he gets home he’ll eat dinner with me and we’ll talk about our days. Most nights about 1-2hrs before we have to sleep we’ll watch our shows. We have weekends off together and I always feel like I’m on a time crunch to hang out with him. Well do an activity and that’s usually it for the day and or weekend. He hops on his game after and he plays for the remainder of the day until we meet back up at night. I feel like I’m always initiating plans and because of that I avoid taking up his time because I feel like he’s never as invested in our plans as I am. I know he works so I don’t want to take away from his personal time cause he doesn’t get a lot of it. But I also have this dream of having a family and spending the weekends having fun with one another, doing activities, going out and exploring and I don’t know if he would be able to keep up with that lifestyle that I’ve been trying to create my whole life. Am I more invested? Or maybe we’re on different pages? How much time is normal for someone who works so much