I’m the one who’s working a 9-6 job, doing grocery shopping, taking the kids to and from daycare, getting them ready for daycare while she cooks, waking her up to prepare breakfast for the kids, taking them to appointments because she doesn’t speak English well, and now, after all this, I’m also required to take care of their playtime, change their diapers, give them baths, or put on their clothes. And this is all on the weekdays. On weekends, I’m also supposed to take her out for some outings because she’s been home all week. And to top it off, there’s no cooking on the weekends because she cooked all week and needs some rest.
Now, what about me? When should I get some rest? I feel like I’m working all the time. I’ve already talked to her multiple times, but she’s not willing to change herself.
I want to leave her, but I can’t because of the kids. I tried talking to her parents, but it was useless. Instead of taking her to talk to her, they started arguing with me.
Now, I don’t know what to do. Please suggest how I can overcome this situation.