My girlfriend says she is missing emotional highs in our relationship. She told me I am not being real with her, she argues and fights me a lot, we broke up 7-8 times. She told me that she wants me to bring the rawness, that makes her feel high, she also told me she only experiences that rawness during sex which makes her doubt my intentions.
When I asked her some examples, she tells me sometimes I lose my control in argument, and that she can see the real me, and can feel the rawness. She also told me one year old incident, where she could see how happy I was after meeting her, (we had lil fight back then), she says she rarely feels that level of emotional high, and the boredom has made her emotionally disconnected from the relationship.
Can someone tell me what can I do.
TLDR: Gf (f20) misses emotional highs in relationships, says she hates me for killing love inside her.