Ok so have you ever met someone who was a 10/10 and you could see a future with, but you weren’t financially or mentally where you wanted to be? Did you let that person go?
For example, I have been dating a guy for about 10 months and it’s been very hot and cold for a few months now. The chemistry is amazing and I can tell that he does like me, but he says that he’s no mentally in a place where he can invest in someone because sometimes he has trouble keeping his head above the water.
For me, if I meet someone I can see a future with, I would never chance letting them go and I would keep them around.
Would this also be a thing for you? Did you go back to them when you were ready? Did you mean it or was that just something you told that person to gently end it?