My (20M) Gf(20F) is asking for a break when 10 months into our relationship even though it feels like it’s been going very well. We are extremely loving we hang out at least 2 times a week and we talk on the phone everyday.
She thinks that the way we are is leading us to be less independent and doesn’t give us the space to pursue personal endeavours. She means it more to me than her as she’s been telling me lately how she feels like she takes me away from my life (friends, family, school) which i always balance well.
She also says the way she feels about me isn’t healthy, and she always wants to be with me and talk to me to an unhealthy level. I don’t understand how wanting to be with someone can be unhealthy.
I think my aversion to this is partly not wanting to lose what we have and partly to do with insecurities I have in myself. I feel like she will find someone better (we are exclusive even if we take a break or talk less)
Would this break be good for us, she also said we can try to communicate less to give each other more space.
TL;DR GF wants to take a break to reach a level of independence we can live life with and I’m unsure if I want that.