I met a girl today for a date. She came to my house afterwards and wanted to spend the night. I told her this was fine, as she didn’t have school tomorrow and wanted to go home in the morning.
So this is unrelated to dating, but I have a very abusive mother. She tends to snoop on me whenever I do something like invite a girl over to the home. Tonight she called the police on me to do a wellness check because I had this girl sleeping in my bed. We were just happily cuddling and all of a sudden the officer knocks on the door. They take my dates information and leave. Later on, my mom starts threatening to trespass and come to the apartment to kick her out herself, because she didn’t want her staying over. Because of this, I had to call the cops. Sending them over to my moms helped but the girl told me she was not comfortable and told me maybe we should wait to
Sleep together. My dad didn’t care when I told him, he was just an enabler.
I’m worried I totally screwed things up with this amazing girl. Should I apologize to her? It’s not my fault that this occurred, and for financial reasons I can’t remove my mom
From my life. When I’ve tried to, police, APS etc don’t care. They just shrug their shoulders and do nothing
I’m devastated.