I (26M) just had my first ever date 12 hours ago with 25F. Aside from a small approach when I was 18 in Highschool I never hit on girls or had huge success on dating apps. Last week I received a random like on Hinge. We started chatting and I asked her on the 3rd day if she has any plans for the weekend.

Up until meeting yesterday for a drink I just continued chatting with her to maintain the connection, although I was worried „wasting“ too much topics during chat and not having enough for the real meetup.

I greeted her with a hug and we sat down. I was EXTREMELY nervous, my heart was pounding up 130bpm. We instantly got into talking, and from the first to the last second we were talking non-stop. None of us used the phone or even went to the restroom. We clocked in 4h 30m of talking until the place closed and we were thrown out. I told her I am glad the evening turned out well, as I was nervous as f, what she also immediately admitted. I walked her back to the car, thanked her for the evening, hugged her and told her we could repeat this sometime soon. This morning she texted me outside of Hinge that she loved the date and we might aswell chat outside of Hinge, as I gave her my number earlier on in case of some emergency.

My head is spinning, I have feelings and thoughts I never thought I could have. My way back home was so emotional. I think I might really like her.

If you have any advice or tips on how I should proceed, please let me know. I'm excited.


21 comments

  3. Well done. Bravo for not wasting time and actually asking her out. You did amazing and honestly, it sounds like you know what you’re doing. Keep it up and don’t doubt yourself!

  4. I’m echoing the others here! Excited for you! This is going great for you….and for her too!

  7. Really happy for you. But best advice you can receive here is to still take it slow.
    It’s awesome that you feel this way. Just be patient and don’t “burn out the flame”.
    Take it easy man, best of luck.

  12. Great job. Honestly no notes. Enjoy yourself, be honest and communicate. After a couple of dates, open up some more. Let things take their course

  13. Your conversation kept things going! You were worried about running out of things to say, but now you won’t be scared of that in the future bc you know you can do it. You’ll keep her around as long as you keep talking to her. It’s that easy

  15. Ask her on dates. Find out what she likes to do. Treat her with respect and kindness. Stay communicating, don’t play games like not returning her texts for x amount of time. But, by the same token, don’t smother her. She has her own life too. Don’t push her. You keep your life. Keep seeing your friends and family. Keep your interests and hobbies. Stay your own person. This way you have something to bring to the relationship.

  16. # You like her bro, admit it and just lock in. Don’t f()k this up, buy chaing multiple women, or lying o her. She seems sweet.

    # So happy fru.🌟🌟

  17. Lovely story but just take things slowly. Look up some advice on how to take things slowly and not confuse infatuation with love and some tips on the first month of dating. Jumping in head first is very easy (done it many times) but it can result in a lot of pain. Not saying it will but it is a possibility so just take it slow and stay true to yourself.

  19. Just be cool and maintain the awesomeness. That’s really it. Just be cool and be you! Go get’em tiger!

  20. Good job on keeping the conversation alive beforehand! If you’re not forcing conversations, then it’s not a problem and it can give you some more stuff to talk about when you meet.

  21. Congrats! I’m happy for you. With that you renounced your membership from our club: The Rejects 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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