I’m no stranger to sex, but I’ve been dating someone new for about a month now.
Long story short, I’m going to be taking her out for an activity date the next time we see each other. When we get back, we’ll both be hella musty/sweaty I’m sure, so I kinda want to gauge her interest by asking if she’d like to shower with me. I know shower sex is terrible but I’m wondering if that’s a good way to initiate foreplay. We almost had sex before, but both decided to wait a little longer. Like I’ve grabbed her butt/boobs and we’ve kissed quite a bit so idk if this is too much of a leap.
I haven’t dated someone seriously in years. Most of my sexual encounters have been through one-off hookups on tinder so I have no idea if this is appropriate or not for a first time initiating.