hi everyone, just seeking some advice. the wife and i were invited to a family friend's 40th bday in a few weeks. the people who are having the party are relatives of my wife's aunt (her uncle is my wifes blood uncle) and this is the first time they've ever invited us to something like this since their wedding which was well over 15 years ago. my wife has known that family her entire life, however, we only ever now see these people at events like weddings and funerals.

so the invite came out on Facebook one morning last week and immediately i seen my wife accepted it. it's on a Saturday night (not near our home) and i work every Sunday morning…so right away i assumed she had intentions of wanting to go alone as we would normally discuss this first. later in the day she did ask if i saw the invite and said she was going. no questions asked if i was even going or not (again knowing i dont ever really go out on work nights) or to try and book the next day off.

Just looking to hear anyone elses thoughts on this. i have no issues with her going alone…its just the lack of communication from her thats getting to me. if any further info is needed ill reply thanks.


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