i’ve been w my bf for 2 years now and in every relationship i’ve been in it’s been hard for me to orgasm without a vibrator. it either it takes me forever to orgasm or i just don’t. i’ve been able to orgasm during just sex a few times but i recently got back on anti depressants which have effected it. i’ve tried to open up the idea of using my vibrator during sex and while we have done it sometimes, he’s told me doesn’t like it and wants me to be able to come with only him. i don’t know how to explain to him that it doesn’t mean i’m not attracted or not turned on by him. i’m also thinking of switching my anti depressant to one without that sex drive side effect.