I met this girl on an online dating app we clicked off in an instant regular video calls everyday she even confessed her feelings for me but she said she might not be ready for relationship but as things went on we got comfortable and she said she's deeply in love with me ..she had chronic depression since childhood and bpd too and other health issues she comes to the city we stay in together she said for surely that we won't have sex that day on the first night we have a lot of cuddles kisses touching …in the morning we were having foreplay when she got so aroused she said I can go in her but I didn't have condoms so i ordered those and it took 20 mins to come until then i lost my erection during those 20 mins she kept telling how guys can never find right spot she will rather have it done by girls (P.S she said that she likes to break male ego on bed whoever boasts in front of her) when condom came i wore it but was not able to get an erection…so we took a break order breakfast and suddenly she said she isn't ready for any relationship.. and she doesn't want me to contact her from tomorrow but she insisted on having sex with me …me being in love with her was traumatised that I was not able to get an erection ( is this normal or not idk) i am usually aroused by BJs or handjob but she wasn't ready to touch me since last night idk why …i tried to get an erection but failed later she said she will give our relationship another chance and will see for the next 2 days if she's able to cope with it …I gained confidence and was able to get an erection and was able to have sex but wasn't able to last long as much as I did earlier …later at night she again went wild and said she doesn't want a relationship and we can't be together but still she wanted to have sex I was able to last long this time but as soon as we switched position i lost my erection ….idk what to make out of this situation does dealing with trauma leads to no erection? Or am I having some problem? Can someone analyse this…she has ghosted me after all the promises and fake love and I'm broken now