I (M25) just got back into dating after a pretty long hiatus (more than a year with no dating) I feel like I’m doing reasonably well on dating apps (tinder and hinge). I have 50+ matches in a month and many more likes. I am able to start conversations in various ways and even have been on 7 or so dates over the last month purely off dating apps. For the most part though it just seems like I don’t mesh with most of the people I talk to. Like women that are really into me and find me attractive I’m not into, and women I’m into aren’t that into me. Is this just a I need to give it more time to find a good match situation (and probably try meeting people in real life more)? It seems like dating kinda slowed down compared to when I was in my early 20s.
It feels weird because I’ve just stumbled into my previous relationships where due to being in early 20s or younger people were way more likely to just stumble into something serious. I’m hitting the point in life where I’d really like to be in a serious relationship, but I’m also not really in a hurry to get there. I can easily fill my week with as many activities as I’d like either solo or with friends. I normally have outside of work plans with friends 3-4 days a week, and do solo stuff like hiking/nature walks with my dog or taking her to the dog park every day.