I recently had my first sexual experience, and I’m feeling quite confused about what happened.
My partner got aroused at first, but we took a while to find a condom, and he lost his erection. When we tried again, he asked me to be on top, but I couldn’t really find the right rhythm, and he said I felt very tight. Eventually, he kept slipping out.
When I asked to switch to missionary and reminded him to use protection, he said condoms always make him lose his erection and he preferred to stop instead.
It left me feeling like maybe I wasn’t attractive enough or did something wrong.
Could anyone share advice？