I don't know whats wrong with me but I can' t finish. I don't even like the feeling of playing with myself. I lost my virginity pretty recently and I hated it. He finished but I didn't. And I hate myself for being so weird. I thought it might be my severe depression but I'm not on any antidepressants. I can get in the mood but anything after I don't like.


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    I don’t know whats wrong with me but I can’ t finish. I don’t even like the feeling of playing with myself. I lost my virginity pretty recently and I hated it. He finished but I didn’t. And I hate myself for being so weird. I thought it might be my severe depression but I’m not on any antidepressants. I can get in the mood but anything after I don’t like.

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  2. Its not weird. I think you might just need someone that you feel safe with. Feeling comfortable with someone makes it a lot easier to enjoy yourself.

  4. Mental health absolutely can have huge effects on libido, it’s not just antidepressants.

    Have you ever masturbated? Are there things that turn you on outside of partnered sex play?

    For most people solo self discovery and masturbation are how they start to learn what they like sexually, and then they try to incorporate the stuff they like into partnered sex.

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