Recently I had sex with my girlfriend which I had never done before with any woman. She was very kind and patient throughout the whole experience and am lucky to be with her. However, during it, I never got fully hard nor finished.
I was very nervous, it was in a car in a parking lot, and I had masturbated that morning. While I want to believe that those things were what directly caused it, I’m not completely sure.
When I masturbate normally I am fast and a bit more rough but when I did it with her I was more sensual and slow which I wasn’t used to and it didn’t stimulate me as much because of the lack of friction which could’ve been the reason. Of course it still felt good, just not what I expected. I’m not 100% sure if that is why since it was only once but that’s my best guess and I want to do better next time. She told me she still enjoyed it and didn’t mind that I didn’t finish but I still want to do good for her. Please give me advice on if this a normal thing or do I need to change?
Happy to clarify or answer questions if needed!