I currently live in the United States and am looking into the possibility of moving out of the country. My spouse is nonbinary AND disabled AND brownish AND lefty, and I'm obviously worried for their safety.
My job has given me the opportunity to live in London if I so wish. I love London (it is my favorite city in the world, actually) but my spouse is understandably hesitant (A) given the UK's recent reputation as "TERF Island", and (B) that they'd be leaving their friends and family behind.
We are a single income household (though I work two fulltime jobs), and we have enough money to live pretty well. I can walk everywhere, but my spouse requires a motorized wheelchair to get anywhere significant.
Does anyone have any insight as to what it would be like to live in London given our situation? Would my spouse (who can pass as femme but generally looks pretty queer) have a hard time? Would their chronic, as-yet-undiagnosed illness (we've been trying to find an answer in the US for literally thirteen years) be more respected by the NHS than the US's for-profit system (multiple doctors have told my spouse "stop eating cake and do yoga and you'll get better")?