This might cause people to become upset or judge me. Knock yourself out, I'm just here for dating advice. Also, to keep this short and focused, I'm leaving a lot of details out.
Back in September my husband and i were having martial problems and I started talking to this guy on mobile legends. It progressed to him calling and texting me and we shared some safe but spicy photos.
Long story, but my husband found out. I thought I was going to get divorced. Instead, he asked a few questions such as if we had met in person and what my intentions were.
Honestly, I never met the guy before and I had no real intentions. I was just bored. He lives in Canada and I live in the US but I'm originally from the Philippines.
My husband said he thought it was hot and was only upset that I didn't let him know before. He's encouraged me to keep talking with him (that didn't work out for other reasons, so now I'm only talking to my husband).
Then he asked me a few nights ago if I ever thought about dating another man while married and promised he wouldn't mind so long as I communicated with him about it. I'm still trying to process this.
I'm not dumb. I know what open relationships, cuckolding, etc is. I just don't even know where to begin. For example, how do you find a guy you connect with? Most guys either just want sex or are turned off by married women. Also, does my husband really want me to have a side? Will he get jealous and want to fight him? I see this ending badly, especially if the first guy we pick ends up not being what we're looking for.
Advice and respectful comments are always welcomed. If you want to try and hurt my feelings, just know I won't even acknowledge you.