Every time I have sex with my boyfriend it hurts.
I have been very frequently sexually active with the same partner for well over a year. He’s been the only sexual partner I’ve had so I’ve had no experience with anyone else to compare to.
Every time we have sex I feel like I’m tearing and it’s extremely uncomfortable and sometimes genuinely painful. I had people tell me it’s normal and will go away after a few times but it hasn’t and it makes it nearly impossible to enjoy sex.
My boyfriend is great and not at all pushy about sex but I still want to actually enjoy it as I do enjoy it until the actually insertion part. We use lots of lube but it still doesn’t entirely fix the problem. Any advice so I can finally enjoy sex??