33 F been together with my significant other 33M for 6 years. Have had our ups and downs. Cheating a couple years in that were purely physical. So there’s damage there for sure. Lots of therapy and self-work later, currently in a good place.
But I recently found a picture collage of him and his ex that was near the spare tire of the trunk of the car. He broke up with said ex maybe 2 years before we even met. I get a flat tire and discover said collage with some other memorabilia. It’s very possible he put it there a while ago and forgot about it.
Debating on how to confront him about it? It’s his stuff so I shouldn’t toss it. And I’m curious to see what he will say. I have a book with pictures my ex gave me in my childhood home which I haven’t tossed. Both of our exes are our first and only other significant other. I mostly kept it cause it just memories and has some pics of my family as well. But I don’t really intend to dig it up. But I feel like I’m a hypocrite if I make him toss his collage. I wouldn’t have an issue with tossing mine. I am very sentimental when it comes to pictures but idk if my significant other feels the same. Just looking for advice.
TLDR; 33 F found pics of his ex in near the spare tire. How to tackle this situation without being confrontational?