Hey, me (27, F) has lost all sex drive after a relationship. I don’t know where to start. I started daiting this girl (26, F) and sex was kinda good (my first wlw relationship) but as time passed sex got very rough for my liking, to the point that I made excuses to not do it. I never spoke out cause my ex was very mean and manipulative about this topic and I ended up agreeing to having sex and being uncomfortable just so she wouldnt lash out at me. Btw, I know I’m 100% not a victim, I agreed, I just lacked self love lol. Now, 8 months after the breakup, I literally don’t have the urge to kiss anybody (not even gonna mention sex lol). Before daiting her, it was so fun to me to go to bars and kiss people and go on silly dates lol but now I literally have forced myself self to masturbate to see if I will even feel anything. Is this normal? Can I just become asexual all of the sudden?
Thanks.