i’m a woman and i’ve found that i really really prefer to receive oral before penetration and i’ve been anxious as i’ve been seeing someone new (male) who i may eventually be intimate with relatively soon. so i’ve been concerned that my need to receive oral before penetration almost every time might be selfish? or unreasonable? because i hate giving oral and will likely never do it to my partner.
obviously this will be a conversation i have with him at some point but i just want to know if this is generally a bad take or if other women have this opinion.