It's exactly how it sounds, I F32 have been living with my partner M35, for 8 years. Over the last year or two I have seen a significant decline in his hygiene habits. He has ADHD which he is medicated for, doesn't seem depressed, no kids, gets all of his free time for his hobbies. The last year or so he has been peeing in 2 litre bottles and leaving them for weeks at a time until I make him throw them away. His computer room is next door to the toilet, it stinks so badly in there that I won't go in other than to check for the bottles. His personal hygiene isn't good either, he smells like urine a lot, he doesn't wash his hands after handling raw dog food. He also rarely helps with housework and I am really struggling. I am either in constant pain or I'm forced to live in filth. Everytime I have tried to talk to him, on the first sentence he calls me a c**t and storms off. I don't know what to do, I am not in a position to leave.