Me (25M) and my gf (25F) have known each other for about 15 years now but have only been dating for the last few months. I have a very limited sex experience as I've almost never been the one to initiate it and the few times I've done it, I was quite drunk. My gf on the other hand has never had an interest for sex and therefore she has never had sex, which surprises me every time I look at her, but knowing her, I know it's true
This might sound selfish as it might be, but I'm dying to have sex with her, however I don't know how to start it. I could try being drunk as it has worked before, but when I'm drunk around her, I get way too chatty and sex just gets out of my mind.
I'm looking for any advice on how to proceed, nothing extreme, I've never had it with someone who has never had sex nor I'm used to starting it