I’m 26f and was seeing someone for over a year with who I’d say I had perfect sexual chemistry. He was the perfect size and sex just felt so fun and effortless with him. We were so intuitive about what each other liked and wanted. Even the after care was 10/10.
I’ve been with 3 guys since and even though I’m over my ex emotionally, I can’t get over how good the sex was between us. No one else satisfies me. I hate to admit it, but I find myself thinking about him when I with other guys, and I really do try to force out those thoughts.
Does anyone have any tips on how to get over this? It’s taken everything in my power not to call up my ex for a booty call.
Edit: I’ve been in therapy (weekly, occasionally twice a week) the last year, where we discuss my relationships but I haven’t seen much improvement in this area.