I’m incredibly attracted to my bf but when it comes down to actual piv sex, I’m just never wet enough and we always need lube. It’s too painful without it. Once he uses lube everything’s fine and I enjoy it.
We’ve been together for about 6 months and he’s never complained about it (he even bought a bottle of lube without me asking), but I feel so bad that we have to always rely on it.
I don’t have a problem getting wet when I’m masturbating, especially with a vibrator. In the beginning of our relationship, I thought maybe it was because I was nervous to have sex with him and that maybe I wasn’t in the right headspace. But now it’s been a while, I’m very much not in my head, but I’m still never wet enough without lube.
I’m also not on birth control or any other medication. I guess I want to ask if this is normal? I just feel so bad and I worry that at some point my bf will think I’m just not as into him because I can’t have sex with him without lube.