I will start by saying that I love my wife so much. In my eyes she is hardworking, intelligent, caring & sexy! I always see post on here about cheating & divorce. Why? Today my wife asked me “ Why do you think people get divorced?”. This is my opinion, it’s because both spouses are being selfish. Neither of the two are willing to work together and or compromise with one another.
Women tend to need more of an emotional connection and men tend to need more of a physical connection. If neither spouse is willing to give the other what they need they are going to go outside of the marriage to get what they are yearning for. Couples need to make time for each other to keep each others needs met. Cheating is not typically one persons fault. I’m not saying that they should have done it but more often than not, there was a reason why.
If more couples would feel like they could freely express themselves to their spouses without judgement or the other getting defensive. The frequency of divorce would significantly decrease. I am grateful that my wife and I can speak freely with each other about anything with each other.
It drives me insane in this sub when I see so many comments that say “Lawyer up”, & “divorce “. Sometimes a divorce is inevitable but I really think that most of the time, couples could avoid it! Lawyers are the only ones that are making out in a divorce and they do not care about you. They only care about what they are getting out of it.