My wife is not a sexual person. Our sexlife primarily revolves around her giving me occational handjobs. Most of the time she is reluctant to even do that. She says she gets the ick and feels like she gets angry with me. So I was wondering if any females could share some insight into this. Are there times where you absolutely don't want to give your SO a handjob even though you know it would make him very happy? If so, what is that feeling in those situations?