I 30M and a very good friend of mine were hanging out last night and discussed dating/relationships while having a couple drinks. She's a lesbian, and I'm straight. We've been friends for 10 years, and have never once been anything more than platonic. While talking, we brought up our sex lives, which we've done in the past. She brought up kinks and asked if I had any. I mentioned I've wanted to try prostate/butt stuff, but have never brought it up in a relationship. We then went on to other topics, and had a fun time.
This afternoon, she texted me and said "hey, if you wanted to come back over this weekend, we could explore your kink for fun".
I have not responded, and am honestly totally unsure of how to proceed.
I don't know how to ask if it's a serious offer? Why she's interested in that? What it would entail or lead to with our friendship?
In a fantasy world, I 100 percent would, as it is something I think I'd be into. When a really good friend is proposing it, I am very unsure of how to respond. Does anyone have serious advice? If there's a fun/safe way to proceed, I'm interested. But I would really want to better understand the situation. Does anyone have a good way for a night like that to unfold?