There was a weekend where my husband drank too much and i told him how tired i was and needed his help with the baby after he put our toddler to bed. Well he fell asleep in there and i was mad because i felt like he passed out due to his drinking. I could tell he was still drunk when he woke up and he denied it and then when i was arguing with him he said you're on your own with the baby then and set her down and left.
The next weekend i was telling him i don't want him drinking unless it's one beer and he fought me on that.
This weekend he had a strong tall can and i said no more after that. He drank another one and i said so you just ignored me? And he just said yup
So i threw away the rest of his beer and don't want alcohol in the house at all anymore. I thought i could compromise but i feel so disrespected