Every marriage has its own secret language. Here are some examples from mine!
ob – obligation "what time is your first ob tomorrow?"
CTO – Chinese takeout
CRP – crushed red pepper
Seinfelding – verb – when you decide to revisit something that you used to hate to see if your opinion has changed (my wife used to hate seinfeld, but suggested we watch it one day)
Mix it up – euphemism for sex we can use around other people
BBS – Big Black Snowman (a Kong brand dog toy nickname that doesn't get the dog excited)
I'm excited to hear yours, I hope they're extra silly 😜