Husband is late 30s and we have three young kids. He’s a great husband, dad, has great fulfilling job, great physical fitness and we have a great relationship (currently, physical relationship is not its best). Literally outside of petty things there he is a great partner, helps with kids and around the house and does most of the cooking. He plans date nights and arranges childcare, makes sure I have breaks from the kids to get out with friends or on my own. However, he suffers from low T and we have a basically nonexistent sex drive. I’d like to have sex at least twice a week. I’ve brought it up numerous times and he swears up and down he still finds me attractive and like deep down wants to have sex but the drive just isn’t there. My body now compared to pre kids is basically the same, I’m fairly fit and take care of myself. Everytime I bring this up he says he’ll go to the doctor and get back on T but it never happens and it’s staring to make me feel a certain type of way and I’m tired of bringing it up and feeling like I’m begging my husband to have sex with me. On the rare occasions we do have sex, it’s good and we are both satisfied. More often though I’m just going about it solo, which isn’t as fun. Social media doesn’t help when it’s all women talking about their husband never leaving them alone or my friends who complain about not wanting to have sex with their husband all the time. Some have told me that’s the perfect man, doesn’t want sex all the time and helps out 😂 Does low T really just make you have no desire whatsoever? Really have been thinking it’s me.