Me 59 male married to 56 female and had the wow moment about two years ago at a Las Vegas wedding that I attended with my wife. She is a former model and has been blessed with great genes and a love of working out. She turned hence that night and looked insanely gorgeous. Without too much detail, she ignored me. We went back up to the room afterwards, and she could not get in bed fast enough by herself I went back down to the casino and had the proverbial drink, realizing that she just wasn’t into me. Little background I make about 20 times which she does and we have what appears to be a great life second home in the lake region trips, etc. about five years ago. I was extremely sick but recovered and have to go to the doctors twice a year after our Las Vegas episode. I had to talk which resulted in the emotional bonding we had sex for about a month as it was predicted on this sub. She even sent me sexy pictures. I made it a big effort to provide sex and not act like a roommate. We’ve been married 25 years and have two daughters. I went through a phase of thinking of having sex with her was purely transactional after the emotional bonding war off however, I’m back to feeling kind of WTF. We have completely lost the emotional intimacy that I think we might’ve had at one point. However, I get the feeling that she’s just not into me. She likes me. She might love me, but at this juncture it’s obvious I’m not sure what to do when I did confront her after Las Vegas incident, we had a nice talk. It was odd though the first thing out of her mouth when I spoke to her was are you leaving me and I said I wanted to go to see a marriage counselor and she simply said sure arrange it. I didn’t was never brought up again. We have a tremendous life. Maybe this is the best to get our conversations center upon finances of my business, which do extremely well with our next trip is gonna be oddly she never asked me how my doctor visits go zero she had no interest in it. It’s like I go for a walk for the dog this past week. She asked if we were gonna have sex over the weekend, which is not adverse to me. I kind of think about it as paying for it. Thoughts appreciate it.